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chat room deleted

Since someone thought it would be fun to pretend to me in the chat room, the chat room has been closed down. A new chat room is needed to prevent users from pretending to be others. And I would need some moderators. I don't know of a chat room that I can put on this site that has such features, so I don't know when a new chat room will be installed. I apologize for the inconvenience.

I really hated to do this, but I cannot take the chance that someone pretending to be me says something horrible to other people.

One way you can tell that the person on the other side is NOT me is because I would NEVER ask if there are women in the room, as I believe that's rude to only want to talk to only a specific group of people.

Also, as many of you know, I do NOT do PMs/IMs as I get creeped out. (I tried YM once, got hit with over 200+ PMs at once, and it crashed my computer). Also, when someone PMs/IMs me, often it screws up what I'm typing to chat so I have to re-do what I wrote.

The person also lied about my age. (Although I wouldn't mind being 25 again! *smile*) So definitely not me.

Now, I don't want the chat room to be gone forever. If anyone can suggest a chat room that allows for about 100 people or more, where people have to register to chat, and the software to run it is free or inexpensive, I'd LOVE to hear it.

Again, my sincerest apologies.



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Nov. 17th, 2009 12:14 pm (UTC)

I tought that all woman stopped counting age at 25.;)

Too bad you had to close down the chat, but I completely understand it, and yes a chatroom where ones has to register is much better. The fact your yours was so "open" gave a lot of people the idea to start "faking" being someone else ( most tried to be a girl / woman ). But everything happende just on the chat, no emailadres, no messenger of any kind and offcourse no webcam or photo.. need I say more? ;) So it's very clear to most of us that such a person is only pretending to be someone else in hope for personal pleasure.

I know that fetish-chat often are in a "roleplaying"-mode, and playing/fooling around can be a bit of fun, as long as al know what / who the others really are.

Also the whole fetish (on the chat most had a form of fetish with hair) is something that many try to hide from others and thus they wanna be anonymous.

I think if you look on the internet for others that might be like you (so have a form of hairfetish) and you find a chatpage like yours it's not a good idea to "hide" who you are... you don't have to be afraid of the others there because all have a fetish for hair someway or the other, it's not considered strange there. And if for some reason your wife / neighbour / collegue from work is also chatting there it's because that person too has a fetish for hair...

So I hope the chat comes back, one where all the members should leave emailadres etc , and offcourse a chat where one name can be used and with moderators that will look into complains from other chatters if again some try to abuse it.

I wrote on my BLOG a few weeks ago about the problems on the chat: http://jwagemakers.wordpress.com/2009/10/23/to-be-or-not-to-be-thats-the-question/#comments

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